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Jonathan Jordan

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One red flag to NEVER ignore:Unkindness. ⤵ A publisher reached out to me:"We have an author who wants to switch ghostwriters and start over. We'll send you the draft with the author's notes so you can see if you want to take it on."The problem became apparent quickly.The scanned draft pages were covered with handwritten notes in red ink. (Can't make this ish up.)"Totally wrong!""Where did you get this?!""Not even close."The notes were downright MEAN.And they were topped off with a disparaging diatribe about how disappointed the author was in the writer's inability to capture what they considered "basic concepts."(Note: they weren't basic concepts.)While the writing itself wasn't great, it was a first draft.First drafts are never great.But I could tell by the writing there was immense confusion. It was clear the poor ghostwriter had been put in a position to fill in a ton of gaps on their own.And maybe they lacked the confidence (or opportunity) to ask the questions to fill in those gaps.I wrote back to the publisher: "No thanks."Based on how he treated the original ghost, I had no interest in working with the individual. Not for a million dollars.(Note: they were offering below market rate.)Life's short, guys.Work with kind people.And be kind.That's your only CTA today.

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Katie Chambers

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It took me a while to learn this. My hubby had to force me to stop tutoring a kid whose mom was a jerk to me and was an actual real narcissist (not just throwing the buzz word out there). I continued to tutor her son for months on end while her emails left me in tears and prevented me from sleeping. I recently fired a client for being rude. Old Katie would have just taken it and continued on her way. But, nope to the nope. I got plenty of clients. Why do I need to waste my time with someone who is rude to me?

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Simple guideline, but one we need remember Jonathan Jordan. That type of abuse isn't worth it. Being a good client is underrated, but it shouldn't be. I'll go above and beyond for clients who value me and appreciate the work. Of course, The writing can be wrong, and you should speak up if something is off, but you can do it kindly!"Oh man, no idea where you got this from. Must have been one of my ramblings. Let's touch base on this part because it feels important that we get this right."

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Ezinne Njoku

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Wow! I'm so thankful you avoided this. I once had a prospect come on a call and bad mouth her friend who had just published a book. Said the book was too small, not that good and she only bought it basically out of a pity. Maybe the book was all of that but that was her friend's book, her first book by all indication. There was no need to be so dismissive of it especially to a stranger you just met. She didn't even realise she was doing it. It seemed like normal behaviour to her. I was pleasant throughout the call but afterwards, I knew without a doubt I didn't want to work with her. She came across as unkind and I didn't want to work with someone like that.

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Kindness to others, even in the smallest way, cannot be overstated Jonathan Jordan. I speak of it constantly, one act of kindness can change someone’s entire mood and day around: and since we never know what someone is going through, it’s a necessity now more than ever. Awesome job choosing you over $$ and a potentially toxic situation.

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James Gibbons

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Jonathan, hate this. Good writers can make something out of not much. Great writers can make a masterpiece out of scraps. But everyone needs direction, I take it as a dire signal when I ask a client a question and they say, “why do you need to know that?”

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Oneta Hammans

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Sometimes it boils down to lack of people skills. Having no tact. Kindness is such a vital skill to have. If it doesn't come naturally to you, then develop it. There's no sense in being rude and unkind to people.

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Barbara Ruth Saunders

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You described something I've encountered, too, and am at a loss to explain.My sense with certain clients I've had is that they don't really understand how hard it is to translate thoughts to a text. They expect magic. Mindreading.As ghostwriters, we can take a person's core messages and shape them into proper text structures. We can't articulate for people the vague ideas coming together in their own heads from a jumble of impressions, thoughts, feelings, and memories.

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Had an interaction with a client's client last week. They had never firmed up dates for the editor(s) they needed, then kept pushing back when they would need me. They finally sent 17 files to be copyedited in less than 48 hours. I said I could do three a day, and they would have to pull in their own editor(s) for the rest.They responded, "Well, that is really unfortunate."I turned around and told my client, "Strike against me or not, I will walk away from this whole project, and they can edit all these files themselves."

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I love how your hoodie says TEAM. What a kind pairing with the post. ☺

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As a ghostwriter...would you say the problem becomes apparent quickly...or does it... apparate quickly 👻

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